Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

June 30, 2009

Filed under: — Constance at 11:24 pm on Tuesday, June 30, 2009

My New Life – Part Three

On May 18th, I entered into the last part of this Blog – that was when I heard that there is no more therapy to be tried for the bone marrow cancer. Since then, I have come six weeks in reasonably good health, including the road trip, and I have no clue about how long I will live. I have entered the land of the “chronic” where I join those thousands of humans near and far who trundle through life in lesser containers.


Perfect days in sunlight and temperature are treasures, and today was one of those events. Our summer migrants who diligently work long hours ridding our near spaces of mosquitoes and other insects are here again with only the stipulation that their housing be right next to the front door to our second floor. Generally this is an amiable arrangement, though their babies do tend to become quite messy just before they leave the nest to seek their own fortunes. Alphie continues his quest for “things under the earth” and his hole repertory is increasing. When I go out to pick mulberries near a lightly traveled path on the west side of the property, I let him dig all he wants, and he is working on a deep trench. He swims in the pond before we return home, and his entire being radiates wet contentment with the whole adventure.


The contemplations about the meaning of life (I have always liked the “42” supplied by the book, “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy”) and God’s intentions continue. Where one’s soul goes after the final earthly breath is taken remains a mystery to me. I have greatly enjoyed talking to people about their thoughts on the matter, because heaven (or the afterlife) is a different place to everyone who responds. I asked the young Mennonite woman who comes to assist us in cleaning the house what her church teaches about heaven, and she responded, “Well, it’s going to be one huge banquet, with everyone at the table.” “Eating?” I asked, and she said, “Of course, eating and drinking and having a very good time.” “Who is going to clear away the dishes and where will the trash go?” was my next question. She thought for a bit and then gave me a wonderful, big smile and said, “I figure God can take care of that, since he takes care of everything else, doesn’t he?” I enjoy thinking about that exchange – when one lives by faith, it is fruitless to get tangled up in the details.

2 Comments

Comment by irene Beethe

July 2, 2009 @ 6:14 pm

Dear Connie,

What a blessing your Mennonite helper is …the comment “I figure God can take care of that, since he takes care of everything else, doesn’t he?” is marvelous, especially when events in everyone’s lives seem uncertain at times!

Enjoy the fireworks from your deck! What a vantage point! We hope to attend a minor league ball game, complete with fireworks after it! Always a good time!

Hugs and love to you and Charles,
Irene

p.s. This Sunday is the “What a Friend We Have In Jesus” Sunday (ala – Charles). I play it usually once a year….too much and the specialness of it would be forgotten! I’ll think of both of you when I play it!

Comment by dick gale

July 4, 2009 @ 6:33 pm

Hi Connie and All —

I wish God would help clean up my kitchen!!

We had a great two weeks in our old haunts in Oregon (Oregon Coast, where we thought many times of your evergreens and Pacific Ocean notion of “heaven” — certainly ours as well).

Then, the person who usually cleans up my cooking mess
(my spouse, Susan) left for a week in Paris w/ her sister and her daughter (a niece who we also saw in Oregon) — Susan comes home Tuesday night [with God’s help (at least indirectly), to a clean kitchen.]

Life goes on. Enjoyed a very interesting Netflix Instant Play showing of Fierce Grace, a biographical film about Ram Dass, who several years ago (maybe at 70) had a major stroke. The film is a curious mix of history and spiritualism — from LSD/O’Leary to India to the 60’s, etc. Although I was never into that brand of spituality, I enjoyed watching the film, andcould partially relatre to Ram Dass’ struggles with the heart-related health problems that hit many in the retirement commiunity where we live.

With not even a dog to keep me company during her nine nights in Paris, I also enjoyed another Netflix film (no, this is not a paid ad!!) titled Music From the Inside Out, which focuses on the members of the Philadelphia Orchestra. Curiously/Interestingly/Maybe not surprisingly, there were some mutual points of spirituality in both films

Take good care, stay dry between your thunderstorms (which I actually enjoyed in grad school in Michigan), and know that our thoughts and prayers continue to be sent your way.

Dick Gale

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