Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

November 15, 2006

Filed under: — Constance at 4:15 pm on Wednesday, November 15, 2006

fridge.jpgOnly three more days of injections now, and life will resume in “normal time”. These treatments always return me to reflections of the mysteries of life, death, creation, and God’s intentions. I told a friend that I wished that I could turn in my body like a used appliance, replacing it with one that is reliable and in good condition and her reply was that she preferred the concept of bionic parts replacement.

possum.jpgIn the two weeks since Alphie has returned home from school, on three different occasions he has emerged from his first moments of the pre-bedtime walk with an opossum clenched in his mouth. He carries it triumphantly all the way around the paths through pasture and wood, laying it down several times and waiting for me to reach for it so that he can then do his favorite “grab and run” maneuver. I walk on by as though there is nothing at all because I know the creature is “playing ‘possum” just as the folk tales I have heard since childhood have reported. Alphie picks it back up, runs on, and finally, at the end of the walk, deposits it at the door as we go back into the house. The opossum will be gone shortly thereafter. At first, I thought perhaps this was a rite of initiation devised by the young and foolhardy marsupials – to take “The Ride” in the jaws of death and survive – proving to all a macho personae not to be trifled with, but when I looked up “opossum” the information said that this is a solitary creature, thus laying to rest my theory. It can only be the same opossum. . . stuffing itself with sunflower seeds at the feeders and bouncing along in supine resignation when it lacks the agility to get away in time. If it happens again, I will need to give it a name to honor its place in our wonderful ecosystem with the misnomer “Sanctuary”.

6 Comments

Comment by Caroline Schau

November 17, 2006 @ 7:39 am

Ordering up parts for our aging bodies… one assumes this would work for the mind as well? and then of course updates for our loved ones, adjusted attitudes for those near and far, compassion and wisdom for our nation’s leaders, all to my specifications of course. Hmmm, probably just as well the world turns as God decrees. One can only pray for understanding!
One thing we here in Tucson do understand and that is the blessing of having you with us still. Thanks be to God for blessings, great and small.

Comment by Janna

November 17, 2006 @ 10:36 am

Dear Mom,

Now that story makes me think. How often does life grab me in it’s jaws
and I struggle? Imagine the metaphorical tooth marks I incur.
But what if instead I thought like an opossum and let life take me for
a stroll without struggling? This only results in metaphorical slobber,
surely a better outcome.

I honor the couragous wisdom of the opossum!

Love!
Janna

ps: But I bet it’s better to be a rabbit.

Comment by heidi

November 17, 2006 @ 4:23 pm

metaphorical slobber?

Comment by heidi

November 17, 2006 @ 4:34 pm

Mom

If you are looking for a name for the opossum you could try Ottokar (Otto for short) which means happy fighter in German. Alphonso (Alphie) means ready for a fight in German. There really are no names that mean – dumb like a piece of toast – or – slow like molassas – or – metaphorical slobber.

Honestly, metaphorical slobber?

H

Comment by Janna

November 18, 2006 @ 11:27 am

You don’t survive to middle age without getting goobered by
metaphorical slobber now and then. It’s happened to YOU, Heidi.
You’re just in denial.

I’m going to buy you a Metaphorical Slobber Journal for
Christmas so you can begin to accept this part of your life!

J

Comment by heidi

November 18, 2006 @ 9:01 pm

Mo-om!

Make her stop – metaphorically slobbering, I mean speaking, that is!

H

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