Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

July 15, 2010

Filed under: — Constance at 9:04 pm on Thursday, July 15, 2010


Now we are on a different path. John-paul came back home again, Heidi’s been here a lot, and Janna comes on Sunday. It is not that I am going to die immediately, but it is a shock to hear that now I am in hospice as there is no more blood transfusing, nor any other sort of “life extender” that some people are tempted to try. The pneumonia is a dreadful thing, reminding one just how large a lung is. I have two things to do…one is to push out air from the lung until the pain is unbearable, thus getting the infection to release from the tissue and the other is taking the antibiotic. The hope is that the infection can be coughed out.


An especially memorable moment in the course of life occurred today. I stood watching the Hospice truck come down the lane so that it could deliver a walker, a wheel-chair, a commode, oxygen, and I don’t know what else – all just for me. I stepped around the the corner of the house and walked myself into the blooming flowers there. Alphie was outside with me, and after a moment, he came around the house too, and for the first time, growled several times, than began to bark his big outside bark. In order for him to be calmed, I had to come back and perform the introductions. This was a new reaction from him so I assume my negative ions must have been doing a radical sort of dance in there.


In a way, there will not be great changes in our lives – I have the hope that I will write letters and notes to people for thinking on me and for praying so eloquently on my behalf. What a fine, ongoing blessing is friendship. God wraps us round in layers of love and care so we can go onward and upward, ever hopeful and filled with thanksgiving for so many of the good days!

13 Comments

Comment by Janna

July 15, 2010 @ 9:32 pm

When we come, your granddaughters will festoon the wheelchair with bright colors and take turns racing in it. We will bring you the best medicine, and you can add laughing to your list of things to do!

love love love

Comment by Becky Pfabe

July 15, 2010 @ 9:49 pm

I love you! Becky Pfabe

Comment by irene Beethe

July 16, 2010 @ 5:08 am

Dear Connie, The friendship you speak about is one that finds it’s roots in the love of our heavenly Father. Prayers continue for you and hugs, even from a distance, still abound. With much love to you and Charles (and Alphie), Irene and Ivan

Comment by heidi Ore

July 16, 2010 @ 6:44 am

I think Alphie said what needed to be said – although the Hospice persons are nice and our heads all know the right things to say and think. A good growl was in order.

Thank you Alphie.

Love today, and always

Heidi

Comment by Tom Ramsey

July 16, 2010 @ 7:26 am

Consider one of the layers of love headquartered in our home. You continue in my prayers. I’m reminded of Romans 8:31f at times like these…i.e. nothing separates us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. God’s blessings…Jesus loves you…and so do I!…Tom

Comment by Rhoda

July 16, 2010 @ 10:29 am

It’s hard to express how deeply I feel about being in touch with you these past months, after so many years of not connecting. Reading your blog has deepened my understanding of what suffering is and how well you have expressed your feelings about what you are going through. There are hard days ahead, probably especially for your family, and I pray that God will continue to surround you with his love and blessing.

Comment by Jerry Pfabe

July 16, 2010 @ 1:08 pm

Dear Connie

I think you’ve helped all of us who know you to understand better the meaning and importance of friendship because of how you have been a friend to us for so many years. You’ve enriched our lives greatly in so many ways, and we are grateful for you.

May God’s love and that of your friends embrace you in the comings days.

In peace and love

Jerry

Comment by Mindy Werling

July 16, 2010 @ 4:26 pm

Dear Connie,
I have pondered since last night what to write. And so I was led to this poem, which I want to share with you. It is at http://www.livingeachday.com/a-ll-Godgavemewings_dhp/

So you are in a new phase of life, but I know that you will continue to show us all how to live each day that we are given, no matter what. What a teacher and what a blessing you are!!

God keep you in His loving care and get you past that pneumonia.

So proud to be your “cousin-in-law” and friend,
Mindy

P.S. Looking forward to pictures of the “festooned” wheelchair!

Comment by Katherine Haar

July 16, 2010 @ 6:57 pm

Dearest Connie and family–We can but continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. I look way back to when I first met you. Heidi and Jana were very small girls–I’m talking 1966. What wonderful memories I have of the visits, bread, hugging and laughing we’ve shared. So here’s one more hug–large enough to envelop the whole Ore clan. May you be under the protecting arms of Jesus as He guides on the “different” path.

Our love always,
David and Katherine

Comment by Diane Harre

July 17, 2010 @ 5:37 pm

Donnie,

I have no words at this time. Know that you and Charles continue to be in my prayers daily. Remember the prayer: “Grant us to go out in good courage, not knowing where we go, but only that your hand is leading us and your love supporting us.” Love, Diane

Comment by Carol Anderson Weber

July 18, 2010 @ 10:50 pm

Connie and Charles and family, I have read your blog sporadically since you began it, and I am always moved by the poetry of your words.

I remember my very first Academic Opening Service at St. John, in 1986, because as I walked over to the campus for some refreshments after worship, I was following behind you and Charles as you two were walking along holding hands. That memory has been like a crystal-clear snapshop for all these years. It was clear to me then, and it’s still clear to me now, that you two have a remarkable love affair.

You are in my prayers, that the pain of the pneumonia will lessen and that your bodacious faith and zest for life will only increase. You are also in my prayers, with thanksgiving that modern technology has allowed so many of us a glimpse into your faith and joy and great humor.

Hugs to you all,
Carol

Comment by Michael Dwyer

July 19, 2010 @ 3:57 pm

May these words from Teresa of Avila bring some comfort to you and your family.

Let nothing disturb thee,
Nothing affright thee
All things are passing;
God never changeth;
Patient endurance
Attaineth to all things;
Who God possesseth
In nothing is wanting;
Alone God sufficeth.

You and your family are in my prayers.

Comment by Paula Huebschman

July 19, 2010 @ 8:40 pm

Dear Mrs Ore,
“Thank you” just doesn’t seem to be enough to say for all you have taught me about life and faith through your blog. I consider it a blessing and a privilege to “sit at your feet”.
Know that love and prayers are being sent your way from our home to yours as you begin this leg of your journey.

With love and peace and confidence in Jesus,
Paula

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