Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

October 23, 2007

Filed under: — Constance at 9:52 am on Wednesday, October 24, 2007

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Last night we had our first freeze of the season and properly forewarned, we went out and picked most of the tomatoes that were still on the vines. They are placed on the garage floor on newspaper, and as they ripen, will provide enjoyment well into winter. Many of our deciduous trees were flinging down leaves today, eschewing a time of color entirely and going from tired green to bare branches in a few hours. The honey locusts on the hill, however, are gifting us with their tiny leaves of true yellow balanced on the tips of their twigs and we rejoice in their color for at least a day or so.

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Near our house and the bird feeders, there is a territorial battle going on between three sharp-shinned hawks. While they chase each other from willow to cottonwood, their intended victims (the little sparrows, nuthatches, and finches) huddle under the safety of the wild rose vines that have climbed over a number of plum bushes near the stream. At one point, one of the hawks sat on top of our largest bird feeder and seemed to say, “Mine! This is all mine!” Moments later, another came swooping past and the chase continued. So much for “peace in the valley”.

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This past week I have been the victim of flu. With compromised immunity, the germs have had a field day within my system; instead of staying for a short visit, they are making themselves at home and apparently having a very fine time while I drink Gatorade and eat the B(bananas)R(rice)A(applesauce)T(toast) food regimen as best I can while popping Imodium AD and hoping for the best. The blood readings today were abysmal and the oncologist’s office repeated several times that I must be very aware of my temperature, and at any sign of a fever, I must see the doctor at once. Meanwhile, I have been prone in the recliner coveting just about everybody – Charles, with his great energy and good cheer, my friends, seemingly hale and full of accomplishments, my children, the neighbors, the mailman. . . Alphie. Well, perhaps not Alphie so much though his bouts of hysterical joy at the simple word “Walk” do provide a reminder to take whatever good one can from each present moment. I believe that we had lost a bit of fervor in our compulsive hand washing, and this experience is ramping up the discipline as nothing else can.

4 Comments

Comment by heidi

October 24, 2007 @ 3:59 pm

Mom

Thank you for sharing these stories and glimpses into your surroundings – I admit, I am envious of Alphie – the adoration, attention, treats, and occasional toilet paper roll –

I found a quote about washing ones hands – Its not quite the right message because you should never be ashamed of your writing but I liked the sentiment that followed –

Writing is not necessarily something to be ashamed of, but do it in private and wash your hands afterwards.
Robert Heinlein (1907 – 1988)

Love

H

Comment by Dick Gale

October 25, 2007 @ 9:07 am

Hi Connie (and Charles and the A-dog):

Although I have not commented for a while, be assured that you three remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Our biggest change is that we are now two, not three. Six weeks ago our terrier, Booker, had to be put down. He probably had a stroke, as one morning his left side just did not seem to work. The vet was kind and the procedure very quick in the sun in a patio at the vet’s office. We had him 12 years, and there is a big hole in our life. He was a particularly big part of my life since he went to my university office with me before I retired.

No new dog for now. The only “good” thing about no dog is that we can now stay at more motels (other than always pet friendly Motel 6), and we plan to do a lot of that.

Again, we think of you, trying to send strength and courage to you over these many miles.

dick gale
gale@presys.com
(Heidi – great Heinlein quote!!)

Comment by Sheila

October 25, 2007 @ 10:05 am

Hi Connie, So sorry to hear you are feeling bad these few days. I constanly think about you and wonder how you are doing.
We are still at a stand still here. Next Monday we will have the bone marrow biopsey and see just what is going on. Nothing, is what is going on in that bone marrow. We see that with all my low low blood counts and nothing even tries to improve. We are both a little anxious as to what the results will be of this biopsey. I guess what will be, will be. I can be happy I’m not in much pain. Today, I am sick to my stomach, however that doesn’t happen offen. I know there are many who are worse then me in whatever illnesses they have. I try to tell myself that everytime I feel sorry for myself. You continue to get this bug out of your system. We had our first frost also. Always thinking and praying for you. Sheila

Comment by Mindy Werling

October 25, 2007 @ 11:39 pm

Greetings, Connie!
I hope you are feeling better by now. We all should do a better job of hand-washing, particularly as the cold and flu season begins to set in!

Pat and I read your entries faithfully and call each other as soon as a new one appears. You remain in our thoughts and prayers!

I visited Germany in September and spent a Sunday with our German Aunt Erna (Ilse Werling Riedle) and her family in Lambsheim. It was delightful! We all climbed to the top of the Evangelisch Kirche tower – rarely allowed, but for some reason the pastor granted permission on the Sunday I was visiting. We started with the circular stone steps, followed by wooden stairs, which seemed to get narrower and more rickety the farther up we went. The final ascent was via a ladder, which appeared to be held up with loose boards. My heart was pounding in fear, but I had to go all the way up. You see, 78-year-old Ilse climbed right up without hesitation, and I had to show her that I also carry the strong Werling genes. So, somehow I made it up, and then even more miraculously, worked my way back down, losing only an earring somewhere in the process. All was made clear to me later on, when I saw a picture of a younger Ilse climbing up the vertical side of a mountain! She and her husband Benno taught Alpine mountain-climbing to young adults for many years. Wouldn’t the Werling girls get a kick out of that!!

I am up late, working on Darby’s Christmas picture. It is an absolute hoot this year. Can’t wait to send it to you!

Here is a simple Bible passage I have found comfort in over the last month or so. May it comfort you as well:
“And now, Lord, for what do I want? My hope is in Thee.” (Psalm 39:7)

Love you much,
Mindy

P.S. Thank you for bringing so much to my life through your beautiful writing.

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