Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

November 24, 2007

Filed under: — Constance at 1:29 am on Sunday, November 25, 2007

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Oh, to be able to sing like that! To fling out my voice and have the neighbors who live several blocks away say, “There she goes again. . .the birds are all flying over here and the deer are fleeing as well”. Those were the kinds of huge voices that we heard last week at the Lyric Opera in Chicago in the presentation of “Die Frau Ohne Schatten” (The Woman Without a Shadow). This is a Richard Strauss opera that has fantastic music and a libretto that has to have been written by someone whose imagination was more than a little odd. (One can get the entire story on the web page of the Lyric Opera) The opera had gotten stellar reviews in the newspapers, and the huge orchestra made the music shimmer and shout. . . it was grand! There were however, unintended humorous moments – for example, the emperor (with the incredible tenor voice) came from the upper world to the human world on a life-sized white horse frozen in mid-stride with tail flying and one hoof suspended ready to gallop away. He descended from above, a journey of about thirty feet to the stage floor, and as he came, the horse swayed back and forth and you could see the death grip the man had on the guy wires while trying to look heroic and sing at the same time. One could easily imagine the conversation that took place prior to the event. . . “You want me to do what!!??” And so forth. The other event that drew unintended spontaneous laughter was the slow appearance of the ideal male from a well in the center of the stage. The dyer’s wife was being tempted by the other-worldly women who were trying to snatch her shadow and after describing her husband as uncouth and unworthy in glorious song, they attempted to seduce her with the ultimate male. He came up painted in a gold sheen and with a typical body builder’s body all abs and such and draped in a golden loincloth. While he stood there, arms folded and trying to look like the absolute beginning and end of male desirability, for some reason, we all began to giggle and laugh even while thinking, “Oh dear, this is not supposed to be funny”. Ah, but the music! It truly was a lovely, memorable evening.

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We had uneventful travels last week, flying to Chicago and our daughter’s home on Sunday afternoon and coming back on Thanksgiving Day thus avoiding both the greater intensity of traveling people and an excess of turkey centered eating. Home looked wonderful even though there is now a dusting of snow; we left in autumn and returned in winter. We picked up an ecstatic Alphie yesterday and our life has now resumed its usual pace.

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The fire burns nicely in our stove as I look out at a wintry afternoon sky – next week decisions will be made about the near future. To use a cliché, I believe I am between a rock and a hard place vis a vis viable options. As I said before, the chemotherapy that has worked seems to be at an end, and the options are to go on with a different type of treatment that is not a first choice or to do nothing. The outcomes are unknown in either case, so I choose to sit and think about supper and recycling catalogues and other mundane things. It seems that sanity lies in the calm moments – it is enough to say as early darkness comes, that this November 24th was a good day. Thanks be to God.

10 Comments

Comment by Carolyn

November 25, 2007 @ 9:18 am

Connie–
When I saw the review of ‘Die Frau Ohne Schatten’ in the paper this week, it was indeed glowing and the thought went through my mind: “That is something Connie and Charles would certainly like!” Now I hear that you thought so, too, and came to see it. Hooray!

We are off to church to sing this morning in the choir. If the sermon leaves something to be desired, I can distract myself with thoughts of opera scenes. Thanks for your help in that regard. You never were any help in the reverence department.

Love,
Carolyn

Comment by Caroline

November 25, 2007 @ 11:56 am

“A good day” is any day one can see the sun rise, have a loving companion to watch it set outside in one’s own Sanctuary, and can relate a glorious musical experience with both humor and appreciation.
God bless, Caroline

Comment by irene Beethe

November 25, 2007 @ 6:57 pm

Dear Connie,

A person I work with greets me each day with “How are you?” The expected response to this greeting is none less than ‘blessed and highly favored.’ This is followed by ‘God got me up this morning – what a wonderful gift and finally, “God is good…all the time…!”

So to look at each day as a gift is indeed a blessing.

As you ponder decisions, may the Lord grant you and Charles wisdom, peace, and assurance of His love, always!

Love to you both,
Irene

Comment by Heidi

November 25, 2007 @ 9:02 pm

Mom

What a beautiful picture of you and dad in the great room looking out over sanctuary – It sings as loud as any opera singer of gentle contentment and love –

Have a wonderful monday –

Heidi

Comment by LaVonne Monson

November 25, 2007 @ 10:23 pm

Dear Connie–Before “reclining”, I read your review of recent weeks. God Bless you and Charles each and every minute!
During this time time when we take extra pause to give thanks to our God and maker, Larry and I thank God for you and Charles. We continue always to pray for your healing. Thank you for the words of faith that you extend to each of us. I especially can relate to your reference to the power of hymnody–. Little did I know how singing these hymns through the ages, would bring strength, hope and peace even more as we “mature”!
GREAT that you went to Chicago Lyric! Its been way too long since we’ve been there! Good for you and thanks for the review!
Until next time, multiple blessings be with you,
Love,
LaVonne Monson

Comment by Tom Ramsey

November 26, 2007 @ 6:01 pm

God’s blessings as you decide your next treatment course. Know that you are in the Lord’s hands…1st, last, and always. Jesus loves you…and so do I!…Tom
ps Thanks to Carolyn’s comments, I now know what the music people are doing while I’m trying to preach [key word = “trying”]…how fun!

Comment by Dick Gale

November 27, 2007 @ 9:53 am

“It seems that sanity lies in the calm moments – it is enough to say as early darkness comes, that this November 24th was a good day.”

Hi Connie and all — I was very moved by this sentence. One must take care to really find and appreciate those calm moments. The early darkness phrase was also very nice — this is my favorite time of the yeara, and I do appreciate the “early darkness.”

I really enjoyed your Chicago opera commemts. We do not know the opera you saw, but Strauss’ Die Fleidermaus is one of our favorites. We have an old Vienna / German tape of it, but have also seen a British Royal Opera tape in which the German is carefully translated into well rhymed English.

Please know that you people are very much in the spiritual space that Susan and I share.

dick gale

Comment by Tony

November 28, 2007 @ 11:35 am

Connie,

I read your web site quite frequently. Thinking of you and Charles is a great pick me up. Just wanted to say Hi! Blessings, Tony Minear.

Comment by Katie Ingram

November 28, 2007 @ 10:33 pm

Connie,

Not sure if you remember me or not, but I was one of the nurse techs on 5 North at your last hospital stay. I am also a nursing student and feel as though I’m being drawn toward oncology nursing. (We had a discussion about this!) I just wanted to let you know that I’ve been following your blog and really enjoy your writings about your journey. Your perseverance, optimistic attitude, and unwavering faith are truly inspiring. I wanted you to know that you were on my mind today and that you are one of those special patients that I hope to always remember. Take care, and may God continue to bless you!

Katie Ingram

Comment by katherine haar

November 28, 2007 @ 11:42 pm

Connie, dear friend, you continue to teach all omortal beings how to gracefully move to the next and the next and the next stage of our time here on earth. You are a treasure to me for that ability.

My favorite opera is any that is sung in English and I gets the giggles from the outlandish translations–most often opera is best left in its native tongue.

I remember Paula, my mother-in-law and I watching Die Fleidermaus one New Year’s Eve and enjoying a lot of quiet after a full day of family. You know the place well too–1501 Washington.

The picture of you and Charles enjoying the Sanctuary from the great room is as llfe should be at this time of year–warm and cozy indoors and crisp outdoors..

Advent is almost here again–a new church year. I wonder if I can find the card from years ago that the Ores sent as their Christmas card–the one that was a song. It is/was a wonderful simple piece about the real reason.

The other piece I so like at this time is Paul Manz’s Even So Lord Jesus Quickly Come.

May you find continued peace in your faith as you ponder your decisions on treatment.

Katherine

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