Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

December 20, 2007

Filed under: — Constance at 9:16 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2007

ChristmasCookies.jpgChristmas now, in just five days! The past weeks have centered on cookies, cards and gifts, and those have taken up all energy and time. In the “olden” days, there were also parties, Christmas music preparations and endless Children’s program rehearsals, and my present self views that in awe. Charles says very matter-of-factly, “That was then, this is now”. We have had snow and glittering trees for days, actually living in the Christmas card settings that often arrive in the form of Christmas card illustrations. Fortunately, we do not have to harness horses and travel by sleigh as frequently depicted, though my mother’s stories of going to Hanover church in a horse drawn cutter, wrapped in fur robes and through the snow covered land on a moonlit night still fills the heart with nostalgia. She would tell of the bells on the horses sounding from every direction as families came to the church.

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My childhood memories of the Christmas eve event are centered on the same landscape and in the same church in the country. Perhaps the brightest picture is one in which I solo for the second verse of “O Little Town of Bethlehem”. . . “For Christ is born of Mary, and gathered all above. . . etc.” I was in the second grade, and stood in the middle of the front of the church, and I was wearing a dress with a red velveteen top and a satin plaid skirt. As I sang, I still see the faces looking at me with ever growing smiles upon them. I was very pleased because I assumed it was delight in my singing; unfortunately, it apparently was that I was twisting my skirt in my hand, which was getting shorter and shorter, and the smiles were about whether my modesty would be compromised before the end of the verse. Never sure of the outcome, this may well have been the end of a budding operatic career.

angelSinging.jpgIn earlier times, my persona would be described as “delicate” or perhaps even “frail”, though my physical appearance is neither. My immunities are edgy, aches seem to compound, and my energy feels as though it is receding somewhat. This is not yet worth complaining about since all is better than what might have been. Charles’ father would always reply to concerns about his health as “Not bad, and it’s better than the alternative” so that phrase has been added to the commentary in the family. My blood readings indicated that they held their own, with just a small drop in the red counts. The next reading takes place the day after Christmas. So I delight and savor these days – as I lie awake in the early morning hours, there are Christmas celebrations from past years playing through my mind and carols and songs sing on and on in my head. Upon occasion this means that my first words of the morning to Charles might be, “How does the third verse of ‘Joy to the World’ begin?” There will be grand music in the next days, and the wonderful and familiar story of Jesus’ birth will be told in word and song. We will view the sky over Sanctuary and think of angels singing and hope once more for peace on earth and good will everywhere.

11 Comments

Comment by Lynda

December 21, 2007 @ 9:53 am

Aunt Connie,

Tanner is a shepherd this year in our program. During our practice I can’t help but bask in the joys of motherhood. I am reminded of Mary and her situation. It would have been very frightening, yet she says “Here am I, a servent of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” Let us wake every morning with Mary’s faith and attitude. I do so enjoy your pictures. I too have many Chritmas memories in that same church. All of us in Iowa would like to wish you and your family a merry Chritmas and many blessings in the New Year.
Lynda

p.s. Your brother would suggest traps for your squirrels. HA HA!

Comment by Dick Gale

December 21, 2007 @ 10:07 am

December 21, 2007
Green Valley, AZ (Tuscon area)

Happy Winter Solstice to You Three!!

(We are visiting friends in this somewhat strange (for us)retirement community. High desert w/ intersting barren rocky mountains quite near, etc.)

“All is better than what might have been” seems to us an uplifting summary of where you appeared to be at your last post — ten days ago.

Music defines this season for us. Getting out the Messiah LP’s (and finding the long misplaced choruses only LP). Watching a great tape of Bach’s Christmas Oratorio, with the excellent timpani parts reminding us of a good friend, and U Oregon music percussion prof. I try to remember the bass part of the Messiah which I sang as part of a community chorus in Florence, OR, a decade ago. We are also enjoying practicing our “French ears” listening to the French translations on the Montreal web radio station I mentioned in a previous comment.

You three remain very central in our prayerful thoughts. (Yes, Alphie, you, too, are in our thoughts, brought very much to life when we saw one of your very attractive and well behaved relatives at our Motel 6 in Yuma several nights ago.)

For us, this is a time for reflection and a pulling together of our spiritual feelings.
Quietly celebrating Solstices (and even pausing a bit for the two Equinoxes) has been part of our life for a number of years. And so, again, HAPPY WINTER SOLSTICE!!!!

dick and susan gale

Comment by Dick Gale

December 21, 2007 @ 10:13 am

CORRECTION PLEASE.

Again rereading my comment, I see that I mistated our observation.

What WE INTEND TO SAY IS:

“All is better than what might have been” seems to us an uplifting summary of a positive change, in contrast to where you appeared to be at your last post — ten days ago.

—–
Sorry for this mis-statement. I am, mostly, awake this Solstice AM.

Comment by Susan Pfabe-Wiggans

December 21, 2007 @ 11:06 am

Merry Christmas Connie,
You have been on my mind very frequently lately. I’m so glad that you are able to delight and savor the Christmas season – it is worthy of both!! Memories of Christmas are always wonderful – and I have many that include you and the balcony at St. John!! Thank you for giving many of us wonderful memories.
Peace to the earth and to you.
Blessings,
Susan

Comment by Caroline

December 21, 2007 @ 12:57 pm

Connie, the early years of Howard and my marriage are filled with Christmas eve services at Hanover. TRhe real candles actually lit, thr organ music pealing forth from the balcony, the children awaiting their bags of fruit and candy. So very different from my childhood; I am glad our children had Hanover memories, it just wasn’t the same once we moved away.
Our families arrive Sunday for the week. God bless to you and yours, Love from Caroline

Comment by irene Beethe

December 21, 2007 @ 4:49 pm

Dear Connie,

So good to read something from you today. I’m thankful that you are enjoying the festivities this year. We await yet another weekend winter storm, the third in the last four weekend. The “weather persons” predict a white Christmas! So….we will see.

After spending time this week preparing for the myriad of services, tonight we will get to relax and recuperate from the colds that have plagued us this week! The kids at school need to be separated for a while to stop passing the germs around! I’m glad that the germs won’t come to you from us via the internet!
To enter your house, I’m sure we would need a double drenching with sanitizer!

God bless you and Charles with a most blessed Christmas, celebrating the gift of our Savior! Thank you, too, for sharing so many previous Christmas memories with us! The music at St. John, “many moons ago” when we were students at Concordia are certainly memorable!

Peace, joy and love to you both!

Ivan and Irene

Comment by Heidi

December 21, 2007 @ 5:30 pm

Mom

I don’t remember seeing that picture of you before – I asked the girls who that girl was they said Janna – you (in the conversation this was me) – I am amazed at how you look like me, my children, my sister – such a strong X chromosome!

Happy Peaceful Holidays!

Heidi

Comment by Tom Ramsey

December 22, 2007 @ 7:54 am

Merry CHRISTmas, dear friends…’tis the season and we’re getting ready for the big event in our church, too. Snow predicted here for the 3rd weekend in a row and Okies are nothing if not afraid of getting out in a little snow. But, I love ’em!

I remember vividly CHRISTmases at St. John. I used to tease David Mannigel that our children’s CHRISTmas Eve service was as complicated as the Normandy Invasion…and Ike only had to do that one once and we did one every year. He would laugh that distinctive laugh of his.

I also remember vividly all the special music you had and how hard your worked with various choirs, instrumentalists and such to see to it that the message of the Christ child came through loudly and clearly.

So…Merry CHRISTmas, dear friends…you made and are making a difference in people’s lives…Jesus loves you…and so do I!…Tom

Comment by Ken Jordan

December 23, 2007 @ 12:21 am

Dear Mrs. Ore,

I second the comments of Tom Ramsey – “…you are making a difference in people’s lives.” People you don’t even know.

I am one of those. I was a student of your husband’s many moons ago at Concordia. I was a singer – I am a singer. And while my time there was short (just 3 semesters), it was huge. Forming. Developing. Influencing. Connecing with some who now are my dearest friends. And so I stay connected – with Seward, with the music department (especially my good friend Ragoo), with Dr. Ore’s website, and thereby with you.

Your walk is enlightening. Your courage is inspiring. And while we have never met, we are very close, you and me.

Wishing you and your family a glorious CHRISTmas-time!

Ken Jordan
Los Alamitos, CA

Comment by Mindy Werling

December 24, 2007 @ 1:54 pm

Dear Connie and All,

O COME LET US ADORE HIM!

Merry, Merry Christmas from Kansas City!

Love you,
Mindy

Comment by irene Beethe

December 24, 2007 @ 3:53 pm

Dear Connie, Charles, and family!

Merry Christmas from Grand Rapids, Michigan!

“Joy to the World…the Lord is come!

Love, Ivan, Irene and Rachel

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