Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

May 18 – Chapter Two

Filed under: — Constance at 7:23 pm on Thursday, May 18, 2006

Who can describe the feeling of reprieve? I know that today, my spirit flew over the trees, I shouted “Thank You, God!” out the window, and I celebrated hugely the prayers and thoughts that so many of you have wrapped around me. This afternoon, we went in to the doctor’s office grinning and filled with the sheer joy of seeing the other side of the “valley of the shadow”. We said, “Tell us everything, please!” He read the report which said that the Vidaza had knocked the dread count of blasts down from nearly 20% to 0.5%, meaning that the intent of the chemotherapy, that is, releasing the infant white blood cells from the material that kept them perpetually unformed and useless and forcing them into working mature cells, was actually carried out. We said, “What is the future?” He replied that he understood that we would want some black and white, some solid data, etc., and that he didn’t have any for us. He went on to say, “The disease is still in the room; it has just been pushed into the corner.” Yes, yes, we said, but how long would it be held in abeyance? Then he said a startling thing. He said that this a rare cancer, and in his practice, he had only seen seven or eight cases. and the people who had it were, in his words, “old and feeble” and did not live much past six or eight months. He said that some couldn’t survive the therapy, which he conceded was difficult, and with which I have done well. “I am not old, and I am not feeble” I sang out, “so what do you think?” “It’s definitely a remission, and I would guess for six or seven months. And then, when we have to, we can come back with the same therapy, or maybe add a new one to it.” He went on to say that my stem cells have been under attack for a long time, and I simply don’t have the supply that healthy people have to work with. He concluded that I would have two more rounds of chemotherapy to not only keep the disease in the corner, but beat it down more if possible, then we would stop for a while to give the body a rest.

My arms weren’t ready to resume the injections, so the nurse had trouble getting them to “take”. She had to withdraw and find a new needle, but the light of this day simply couldn’t be dimmed. We had hoped for improvement, of course, but we had not expected the best possible report! And if this can happen once, it can happen again. A doctor can present his good gifts of healing, but who can really take the measure of miracles?

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Comment by Mira Wiegmann

May 18, 2006 @ 8:25 pm

What terrific news. Your phone must be ringing constant joyful symphonies as your friends and family call to celebrate with you. I went with Dick to Omaha this morning, and saw a flock of seagulls near the road that leads to Sancturary. I said a prayer that if the report was in, you would get good news today. Surely hope and courage encouraged those white blood cells and enabled you to withstand the treatment. The Phat Ladies have much to celebrate this year.
Mira

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Comment by Caroline Schau

May 18, 2006 @ 9:21 pm

I told Millie of your wonderful news when she called from her 5th grade classroom, to congratulate Howard on his birthday. She responded, “I will tell my class. We have been praying for Aunt Connie and our prayers were answered.”
Well, God always answers prayers and for His giving us what we have all prayed for, we are thankful.
May your Spring simply continue on with great joy.

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Comment by Janna

May 18, 2006 @ 10:17 pm

I found this chat thread from other MDS warriors worth reading:

http://www.mds-foundation.org/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=004141;p=1

I was thinking about how MDS is a rare disease, and how your doctor has only had a handful of cases during his career. And how you are responding in a way unique in his experience. How can he predict what will happen next for you? (And wasn’t the wise doctor extremely reluctant to comment on what your future holds?) On the MDS foundation chat thread, some people talk of being in remission for *years*, even after progressing to leukemia. Surely each of them had this day also, so full of joy and hope. So why not say, we’re in undiscovered country? Anything can happen now, healing is possible, doctors have seen things they can’t explain and don’t understand, and isn’t this just what the beginning of a miracle looks like?

If it could happen for anyone, it can happen for you.

Surrounding you in love and glad to have you for my Mom,
Janna

ps: when my twins become teenagers, please don’t gloat when they
torture me!

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Comment by Tom Ramsey

May 19, 2006 @ 2:41 am

What wonderful news, Connstance and Charles! I’m thinking of Ephesians 3:20-21 now, “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we can ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever. Amen.”
God is “able”…He certainly is…
Thanking Him for the gift of life in ChristJesus, both now and for eternity…and for making you!
God’s blessings…Jesus loves you…and so do I!…Tom

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Comment by Jerry Pfabe

May 19, 2006 @ 6:14 am

Connie, this is fantastic news. Esther and I are so very happy and excited for all of you.

In the “olden” days, they used to sing a Te Deum on very special occasions. Is Charles busy composing one?

Peace and love
Jerry

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Comment by Heidi

May 19, 2006 @ 2:26 pm

Greetings

I cannot even speak to the great well of joy in my heart! – in fact I have been coaxing it out ever since I heard the news from yesterday – switching gears can be hard but this news is like the warmth of a spring day – you forget the cold the very moment you feel it!

Also you slipped a new word by me in your blog so I thought I should post the meaning – I know I am not the only one who was wondering!

Main Entry: abey·ance
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle French abeance expectation, from abaer to desire, from a- + baer to yawn, from Medieval Latin batare
1 : temporary inactivity : SUSPENSION
2 : a lapse in succession during which there is no person in whom a title is vested

As always, nicely said!

Love H

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