Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

December 30, 2008

Filed under: — Constance at 10:23 pm on Tuesday, December 30, 2008


Gifts still await opening as they reside under our little Christmas tree which we cut out of the ditch next to the road and near our driveway. It was doomed by its unfortunate location, so we determined that it would spend its last days bearing lights and tinsel and standing on a table in our great room delighting the senses of all who enter there. The entire family will finally be together tomorrow, so it will be the day of gifting and eating traditional Ore holiday foods.


Alphie is using his mended knee most of the time, and his surgical incision is healing nicely. We were told that he absolutely must not lick this part of his body even though it is the first instinct of the dog, and should he be unable to resist the urge to do so, we were to put an “Elizabethan collar” on him. This is a piece of plastic the size of a large lamp shade. Of course Alphie wanted to lick the wound, and at first we tried wrapping fabric loosely around his leg, as well as bandaging, but to no avail. Finally, we tried the collar, and the poor dear went berserk, swinging his head about, bumping into doorways and furniture and knocking flowers to the floor. In a short time, it was too much for all of us, and we took the thing off and called the vet to request Plan B. Fortunately, there was one, and that was a bandage that actually stayed on his leg with a spray to put on the bandage that tastes dreadful. (It should have been Plan A, since it worked perfectly and could have saved us a good deal of frustration and one very nice orchid.)

I have attempted to push all thoughts of January, 2009, back into a corner of my mind since the upcoming bone marrow draw, the placing of the port, and the beginning of a new course of chemotherapy all take place within the first two weeks of the new year. The bone marrow reading will tell us the percentage of “blasts” in the blood, and whether I have moved on to AML. (Acute Myeloid Leukemia) Twenty percent and above are usually the markers for that condition; when I began the disease, I had 18% blasts, and the Vidaza knocked that back to 0.5%, which was wonderful. At my last bone marrow reading, about a year ago, the blasts had returned to 10%, and it was at this point that the oncologist stopped the Vidaza because he felt it was losing its effectiveness and was also beginning to make me quite sick. When the illness did not proceed as the doctor anticipated that it would, he declared that it was taking a “time out” and that has been the gift of 2008, a wonderful time indeed. Now I am returning to the fray, this time with less options and an older and weaker body. It is daunting and sometimes I am afraid, however, only time will tell how life will go on, and as ever, I defer to God’s ultimate plan. Meanwhile, there is tomorrow, and that will be splendid!

5 Comments

Comment by dick gale

January 1, 2009 @ 6:27 pm

Happy December 32, Connie and all:

New Year’s eve was at home for us, but not all that quiet as we enjoyed our great old tape of a Vienna Opera Fledermaus. (The jailer has a calendar that shows December 32.)

We also enjoyed a new 18″ X 24″ photo blow-up of our dog, Booker, who died a year ago October. A quick photo of him sitting on an empty pottery garden pot! Kinkos messed up the first enlargement, so we ended up with TWO great copies!!

Know that are thoughts are with you people as the upcoming medical stuff looms. Connie, although your body and most of your spirit will be in Nebraska on January 6, we’ll take a bit of that spirit with us to lunch that day on Balboa Island, Newport Beach.

(We’re glad that the A-dog seems to be recovering.)

A warm Happy New Year (and 12/32/08)!!

dick and susan gale

Comment by Becky Pfabe

January 1, 2009 @ 7:39 pm

Many, many blessings to you and your family in the new year! Love, Becky

Comment by Caroline Schau

January 1, 2009 @ 10:56 pm

Connie, By now the packages have been opened, the tree sits empty, and surely Alphie has healed yet further. If 2008 was a blessing and 2009 may be a challenge, the things that do not change are the love and good wishes you have received and will continue to do receive, from us and others. Love to you both in this new year from both of us and our entire family.
Caroline

Comment by Tom Ramsey

January 3, 2009 @ 9:43 am

Returning the the fray, what an apt description of the chemo process! Our local cancer center had a “Celebration of Life” one day early in December. The director kindly asked that I do a devotion and I used John 3:16 and Josh 1:9 as my texts. Because John 3:16 is true, so is Josh 1:9 “…do not be terrified, neither be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” You’ll be fine in ’09, dear friend, because of our mutual Friend, Jesus…God’s blessings…Jesus loves you…and so do I!…Tom

Comment by irene Beethe

January 6, 2009 @ 7:17 pm

Happy New Year, Connie!
We continue to keep you in our prayers and know that the Lord will always be with you!
Love, Ivan and Irene

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