Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

February 9, 2009

Filed under: — Constance at 1:08 pm on Tuesday, February 10, 2009


My enjoyment of the blood transfusion “bump” was short lived. One week after receiving the red blood, I started into an intestinal problem that increased in intensity each day. By Sunday morning, we were at the Emergency Room because I was in great pain with a distended belly and dreadful diarrhea and throwing up. I am now hospitalized in a room that is kept closed because of my neutropenia. People have to check in before visiting me and everyone must wash hands coming and going. The diagnosis I have been given is that of having “Clostridium difficile” (‘Kloh-strid-ee-oom diff-ee-seel’), referred to as C-Diff. the C-Diff illness was made possible by the ingestion of the antibiotics needed to stop the sepsis or blood infection in the finger. Those antibiotics then killed off the controlling bacteria that live in everyone’s innards, and this cleared the field for the bad ones to proliferate. They are also living in everyone, but are kept in check unless antibiotics kill them off. When that happens, the wicked bacteria grow in great numbers and release toxins in the process. The toxins can eat the walls of the intestines, and generally can carry one off to eternity via that route. Now I am on another set of the heavy duty antibiotics (Vancomycin and Flagel) that are required to kill off these things, but in the process, with no immunities, other systems can go awry. So here I stay for a bit until this is gotten under control. Charles says that with myself gone, Alphie is very subdued and sad and no creature can look more tragic than our dear Alphie.


We have an anemometer to measure wind velocity on top of the house, and Charles told me that today he saw it hit fifty mph. This fierce south wind brought very warm temperatures for this time of year, and some rain as well. I am sorry that I missed the day and the drama; inside these walls everything is very quiet and controlled if one discounts the incessant buzz and tick of the IV pump and the air control system. The oncology floor is very busy with someone in every room – one of tonight’s nurses is very large, loud and officious, but the other one is quite nice, and fortunately the nice one seems to be in charge of most of my needs. The nursing job looks like a lot of hard work coupled with great responsibility, and most of the time, there is great appreciation for the people that have chosen this profession. Now we wait for tomorrow and the healing that we hope the medications can bring – perhaps I can return to my beloved Sanctuary soon!


Tuesday morning: I will be in the hospital at least another day and night – progress is slow, and I seemed to go backward instead of forward, so in the early hours right after the doctor’s visit, I had given way to tears when the Nurse Manager came in for the first time. She sat down and gave me great comfort and empathy, and I reflect now how incredible it is that I am given so much support and care by so many as I stumble on toward eternity.

12 Comments

Comment by Janna

February 10, 2009 @ 3:04 pm

Stumble? Surely not. My last sight of you in the hospital on Sunday created quite the opposite impression: you wore green silk pajamas, a matching green silk robe, laid on a recliner and composed email on your portable. I filed it away under This Is How To Do This.

Yet another gift from you to us. I hope you feel better today, Mom! love love love Janna

Comment by Mindy Werling

February 10, 2009 @ 5:51 pm

Dear Connie,
I hope you are feeling much, much better by the time you read this! I can just picture Alphie, with drooping head and sad eyes, waiting for his momma to return. As morose as he is now, how joyful he will be when he catches sight of you! I get a kick out of my Darby. I often drop a little biscuit on the living room floor for him as I leave for work. When I come home for lunch, there sits the uneaten biscuit, while Darby dances a short greeting. Then, tail wagging, he dives for that biscuit and munches on it while peering up at me. I guess that biscuit just doesn’t taste as good when I am not around!

I’m hoping and praying that you’ll be home tomorrow, or shortly thereafter! I’m glad that you have such supportive and caring nurses, but truly, there is no place like home.

Love you,
Mindy

Comment by Lynda

February 10, 2009 @ 6:47 pm

Aunt Connie,

You have my deepest empathy. About a year ago I had C-Diff. I have never been so sick in my life. The antibiotics to correct it were very strong and at first they made me sick too. It took me a long time to recover from that. I pray you recover very soon and can return home.

We have had some very nice spring like days. Mom and Dad were up to visit last week. Hope you got my email?

Take care! Always in our thoughts and prayers!
Lynda

Comment by irene Beethe

February 10, 2009 @ 8:58 pm

Dear Connie,

Prayers continue onward for your recovery and that you will be able to return home soon and once again bring joy and relief not only to Alphie but to all of us as well.

I’m glad there are those around you who can comfort and share their love and care with you. Those of us in more distant places have to resort to mere words!

Love in Jesus,
Irene

Comment by mira Wiegmann

February 10, 2009 @ 9:35 pm

I thought of you often since your e-mail yesterday, and debated calling Charles knowing that answering multiple calls can become difficult when many tasks await him as he looks after you. Tomorrow I’ll call Bryan and ask for your phone number in hopes that you will feel up to a chat. I hope that you get some relief soon. I also mostly missed the winds and today’s warm weather as I am spending time after class in the basement costume room sewing, and the sky is darkening when I depart for home. So we both are within quiet walls at present and celebrating Spring will have to wait a while. My prayers for you continue.
Mira

Comment by Becky Pfabe

February 11, 2009 @ 9:38 pm

Connie, I know that C. diff. is NASTY! I hope your body rids of it quickly. In the meantime, do nice things for yourself like silk jammies! (that sounds luxurious). Lots of Love, Becky

Comment by heidi

February 11, 2009 @ 10:20 pm

Its Wednesday and Mom is out of the Hospital and back feeding the birds, walking Alphie, and making Dad supper.

I would like to extend a sincere and wholehearted thank-you to all the doctors, nurses, and the very nice lady who runs the wheelchair at Bryan East – blessings on your days –

I would like agree with Janna on the “stumble” comment – and now Mom has eggplant colored satin PJ’s as well – the bar has been raised!

Comment by irene Beethe

February 12, 2009 @ 8:54 pm

Heidi,

Thanks for the update on your mom. She truly is teaching us much about living and “stumbling.” The satin PJ’s sound mighty fine to me! Give her a hug from me the next time you see her!

Love to all of you,
Irene

Comment by Mindy Werling

February 12, 2009 @ 10:08 pm

Dear Connie,

I’m going to California tomorrow to see Bonnie, and I’m going to shop for some satin PJ’s out there! I want some in the old Hollywood style, trimmed with that feathery stuff! Why not??!!

Love,
Mindy

P.S. I am SOOOOO glad you are home!!!

Comment by John Casey

February 12, 2009 @ 11:35 pm

Dear Connie – I am so glad to know that you are out of the hospital and again enjoying familiar surroundings (at least until the snow arrives). It’s really astonishing how quickly you bounce back from these setbacks. You are certainly a shining example to all of us who face far less challenging issues, but who sometimes make more out of them than we should. The Plymouth Choir sends you their best wishes and hope for continuing recovery.

Comment by dick gale

February 13, 2009 @ 3:39 pm

Hi Connie and all –

Glad you are home again — what complexities emerge with the range of medicines!!

Your “stumble on toward eternity” phrase is interesting in several ways. “Stumble” is as good of a verb as any — rush, wander, stroll, mosey don’t really do it. You, of course, are surrounded by a band of us who are similarly stumbling in the same direction. We might, of course, jazz the phrase up with an adverb — stumble stylishly might match your pj,etc. attire!!

This weekend will find us in Idyllwild, a mile-high mountain village near Palm Springs. Or, it might not, if the snow comes in as some have forcasted. We’ll see what Saturday mid-day brings. If we do make it, the weekly concert report will be titled Mile High Bach Guitar.

No matter where we end up, know that our thoughts and prayers will continue to be sent your way.

dick and susan gale

—-
Alphie might enjoy checking with NYTimes.com/sports for TWO short slide shows from the Westminster Dog Show.

Comment by irene Beethe

February 17, 2009 @ 8:27 am

Hi Connie,

Stopping by to say ‘hello’ this morning and wishing you a day filled with hope, joy, and love from the Lord!

Love from me too,
Irene

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