Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

February 17,2009

Filed under: — Constance at 5:33 pm on Wednesday, February 18, 2009


While others can report with modest pleasure about their adventures in Mexico or California or other places of joy and sunlight, I am pleased to announce that I have added the experience of C-Diff to my growing portfolio of journeys with my body. After the release from the hospital, I commenced life with so many medications that I made a list to post on the front of the refrigerator so I can avoid drug interactions as well as remember to ingest them. Yesterday morning it appeared that the C-Diff challenge has been conquered. The medicines must go on however, to be absolutely sure. On Friday, after flinging down the last two of the heavy-duty antibiotics, I will return to the oncologist to see if I can resume Chemotherapy.


Meanwhile I am incredibly hoarse, with a voice that can come out high and whispery, low and whispery, whispery and broken, or with that sort of rattle that makes people you are talking to begin to uncontrollably clear their own throats. Good friend Linda commented that I sounded as though someone had hands around my neck (presumably applying pressure with thumbs on the voice box). This does several things. First, it causes me to think twice before reaching for the telephone to visit with a friend, and secondly, it causes receptionists in doctor’s offices to respond quickly and with a touch of “Oh, dear” in their communications. Now, after more X-Rays and no new insights, it is hoped that one of the inhalants that I have been prescribed and highly encouraged to take may be causing the hoarseness. This would be a satisfactory and simple answer to the problem – I looked up the product on the Internet to see whether this side effect was common, and saw that it occurred in about 1% of users. Of course, should it be true, than it has happened in 100% of this user.


Alphie’s joy at my return was so very gratifying. He followed me about and as soon as I sat down, would lay his dear head on my feet. “Oh Alphie,” I said, “I really missed you, too!” more than once, but then hastened to assure Charles that I missed him more, of course, and he finally said, somewhat drily, I thought, “It’s OK, Connie, you don’t have to tell me that you missed me more than you missed the dog. . . I understand”.

Without faith, family and friends I would have folded a long time ago. This powerful support system is larger than words can encompass, and it is for this that I am most thankful. My conversations with God are wide-ranging and comforting, my dear ones are unfailingly incredible, and my friends’ prayers and words of encouragement continue to lighten and brighten my days.

6 Comments

Comment by irene Beethe

February 18, 2009 @ 8:25 pm

Dear Connie,

We continue to commend you to our loving Heavenly Father. There are so many things we can’t begin to fathom or understand, He’s the best one to carry them for us. What a comforting thought! We KNOW that He continues to carry you through this journey, filled with surprises (some not too pleasant), and much love from family and friends.

Alphie seems like a wonderful constant companion…not that Charles is anything less than that. I just can’t quite picture him with his head on your feet! I’m certain he provides comfort in different ways!

Love to you,
Irene

Comment by heidi

February 19, 2009 @ 9:31 pm

Dearest Mother whom I adore –

You must also add to your “health resume” being the best dressed, most polite and helpful (caring for yourself, being the nurses ‘favorite’ and making sure persons calling into the phone get to the right person), hip (not replacement, I mean laptop-wireless connection – calling tech support to get connected-I-Phone wielding kind if Hip), and out and out just fabulous!!

We had a great time introducing our newly adopted dog, Leo – a 5 year old chow mix, to Alphie yesterday. Alphie showed Leo, the city dog, how to run through the pasture, chase rabbits into the next section, and then generally lie around – a very informative night was had by all!

Love H

Comment by Judith

February 20, 2009 @ 12:10 pm

Connie — Glad you’re home among family, and that you’ve beat the dreaded C-diff! Keep strong!

Warmly,

Judith

Comment by dick gale

February 20, 2009 @ 4:52 pm

2/20/09

Hi Connie and all —

Well, couldn’t make it up the mountain – ended up in church instead. Last weekend, the roads were very snowy (chains required, etc.) for the trek from Palm Springs to Idyllwild (elevation 5,280). We ended up for a 3 night weekend at Susan’s sister Ann’s in (rainy, windy) Pasadena – her sister and her husband were to meet us in Idyllwild.

Sunday morning was very quiet, and I decided to attend the 9:30 service at the what is called the Neighborhood Unitarian-Universalist Church of Pasadena (uuneighborhood.org). The location is very special, as it is on a parklike piece of land that is shared by the Gamble House (Gamblehouse.org), a beautiful large house that is now open as a museum focusing on the Pasadena Craftsman style architecture. The actual church is a windowless, shake-covered box surrounded by trees, although the church’s fellowship hall and offices are in a structure which might have been part of the original Gamble estate.

(Unitarianism has always been part of my internal religious/spiritual mix – my first marriage occurred in a Unitarian church in Seattle. But my most recent Unitarian church attendance was 46 years ago in Lansing, Michigan, when I was a sociology grad student at Michigan State.)

With Valentine’s the previous day, the service was oriented around the theme of love. Several aspects of the structure of the service were very interesting. 1. It was billed as an “intergenerational service,” with children (except for very small ones) in the congregation (and totally quiet during the two silent parts of the service). 2. At three points in the service, people could offer the number of a hymn, and we would sing together the first verse only (the excellent organist was quick to play the melody through before we started) – there were 2-3 hymns in each of the three such sections (there were also 2 full hymns in the service. 3. The sermon by the Senior Minister was not delivered from the pulpit (but from his moving in the center aisle and in front) and was broken into three sections (the church was at maybe 500 people capacity, and his voice carried well enough for even my 71 year old ears to hear ). 4. The service also included the minister reading a (politically correct – young girl wanted to be a knight rather than a lady-in-waiting, ended up saving the town and befriending the dragon, etc.) story to children who gathered in the front with him (again, his voice carried well, and even 71 year olds like to be read to). In all, a very special time in a very special place.
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(Delayed) Weekly Concert Report: It’s Back to Church for a Sunday Afternoon Concert.

Turns out that the Church’s Music Director is also the Director of the Pasadena ProMusica, a separate organization that includes much of the church’s choir and performs in the church. “The Battle of the Sexes” was the title of the 4PM concert. The program was divided into six sort of relationship stages from The Divine Plan to The Chase to Trouble in Tahiti to On My Own Again. There were 3-4 pieces in each of these sections, which included composers as diverse as Purcell, Benjamin Britten, Thomas Morely, Haydn, Gershwin, and Puccini. There were voice solos and different chorus combinations, including a short barbershop quartet number. A piano, harpsichord, cello, and bluegrass duo also did their part(s). Great concert!!

Connie, you get strong positive thoughts sent your way by us from all sorts of places – now you can add Uuneighborhood Church as a sending place for thoughts winging east to you.

Your spirit certainly continues to shine though that hazy mix of drug stuff you are going through. But, hey, low, husky voice, etc. — an appealing contralto in a bright green pajama suit, being led by a personable large brown dog — sounds like a great combination!

Our Warmest Best to all of you,

Dick and Susan Gale

Comment by John Casey

February 22, 2009 @ 10:19 pm

Dear Connie — I’m relieved to know that you are once again on the mend. There are few things worse than a greatly disturbed GI tract. Hopefully, your chemotherapy can be started once again, this time without any interruptions.

Warmly,
John

Comment by Jonathan Mueller

February 23, 2009 @ 10:58 pm

Dear Connie…

We continue to keep you in our prayers in the Mueller household in Wheaton.

Jonathan, Dawn, & Family

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