Constance Ore is a retired Teacher, Choir Director, and Organist. And a formidable cook.

September 2, 2006

Filed under: — Constance at 7:53 pm on Saturday, September 2, 2006

Just one more day of injections! I am always taken aback by how difficult the whole exercise becomes as each day advances. I started the week feeling reasonably well, and every morning I have felt worse due to the chemical wash directed toward the bone marrow. By yesterday evening I called daughter Heidi so I could whimper and whine. “Tell me why I am doing this since my blood counts were normal!” I said, and she kindly replied that I should remember that I am in control of the choice to go through the seven days or not, though her understanding was that without this treatment, the blood cells would be inclined to throw out the useless blasts once again, and therein lay the path to terminal illness. Of course she was right, and of course I knew it well, but it helped to hear her say it. Remission has meant feeling well and forgetting about the enemy within; this brings everything back again. It is as though I must pay a periodic toll to traverse the path into the future. The discipline required to do this means I must remember the lovely days of the recent summer past as well as how beautiful autumn can and will be if my body is once again “normal”. And yes, I am grateful to experience the wonder of remission and I am thankful that there is more to come.

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Comment by heidi

September 3, 2006 @ 8:37 pm

Mom

Thank you for calling me! I am thankful that you found my words helpful.

A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes longer.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 – 1882)

I was telling the girls that grandma pat (jon’s mom) went canoeing down the niobrara river and that she was a quite an adventurer! Zoie said, “my grandma pat?” I said “yes” she said, “Grandma Connie is the great adventurer – she battles cancer” – I said, “so she is.”

I don’t tell the girls everything but they get the point of it anyway. Thank you for hanging in there “5 minutes longer”

Love Heidi

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Comment by irene beethe

September 3, 2006 @ 9:11 pm

Dear Connie,

By the time I read this, I assume you are finished with paying the “toll” this time around. Heidi is such a wise and caring daughter….so good she can remind you of the good that has come from this..autumn is just around the corner. I pray that you will begin to feel better as each day progresses, without further treatment.

The apples here are ripening on the trees and they branches are laden with the beautiful fruit! Ah, fall in Michigan! School starts for Ivan on Tuesday…one more day of “vacation” before the kids arrive. He is so excited to be teaching this year…what a difference a year makes!

God’s peace, love, and joy surround you tonight and through the coming week.

Love, Irene

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Comment by neighbor

September 4, 2006 @ 7:47 pm

YOU DID IT–as we all knew you would—-you’ve come too far to back track now—-All of us –all the way from ‘here’ to ‘there’ are trying to send what little strength we have to help YOU build yours for these times—You will–you have —you did—and will continue to! Nice going Connie–Keep it up—

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